It's important to know what are we loving. do we love the person as himself/herself? Do we love the character, the personality, the habits? The accent, the voice, generally the being?
Or do we love the way they love us? The way they give us flowers every week ? The way they look into our eyes and say I love you ? Or the way they take care of us ? In short, did you fall in love with them because of what he/she did to you?
Well. You might say that 'it's the whole package'. Of course it's the bloody package. Everybody wants the whole package. But well, it seems that when the sea turns rough, when the storm approaches, everything that he/she did becomes rather irrelevant and easily forgettable. Too bad.
So if he's very sweet, but he's short tempered, do you still love him ? Or if he's good tempered, but he is a hopeless romantic. Would you still consider him ? If she's damn sweet looking, but will never affirm you that she loves you, would you want her ? If she's good looking, but can't take care of your family for nuts, would you think about it ?
Anyway, love to spend time with the nephews. Kids kill us sometimes. But we learn so much from them. For example, watching Nemo for the #25 times will make you feel guilty when fish is served on the dinner table. Ha. Err, after the fiftieth time of Batman, Spiderman, and Harry Porter, you start to believe that they really do exist. They never fail to crack me up. They come into my room to visit me every 15 minutes ( if they're not already playing hotwheels on the floor behind me ) and say " i am very boring.. got things to play? ".. haha.
That aside, you start to learn, that fundamentally, the basics of human emotions. Cos children don't hide them. They don't have 2 faces. They don't care if you are rich or poor. They don't judge. Well, of course Geoyi always asks me why is my tummy so big, but that aside, they love me as much as I love them. I always wonder - where will I be when they're 20 years old. That's about 12 years from now. That would make me hmm...
My younger nephew woke me up at 745 today jumping on my bed, making monkey noises, asking me to turn on the computer for him..I ignored him. and he start to lie on the floor, singing songs etc. The elder one was doing homework the WHOLE day while i was working on my proposal. * anyway i eat pig's trotter today and i think i won't eat pork for at least 3 months. It was from 周庄@Anchorpoint. Basically yesterday ( friday ) was my cousin's wedding anniversary. i think it's funny how they went dating at anchorpoint, and eating pig's trotter ( they couldnt finish and it became my lunch today ). but haha. it's funny. My cousin put on make up and all. and i think he took half a day leave..
** Pheephee and i are suppose to be working. But we're just like msning each other EVERYTIME the lightning and thunder comes. HAHA. it's damn funny. Ok. it doesnt funny now. but when we were doing it just now, it was. This is the kinda of joke where you can't tell a third party or blog it ( ooops) cos it wont be funny la.
Back to the wedding anniversary. I think it's damn sweet ! :D
And it's mother's day today. Gotta call my mum.
Saw a lot of photos on fb. Of friends. Associates. Strangers. Travel photos. Happy sia. I think i will have to work damn hard these 2 months. till at least July. then i will take a break with Alexseah. GuangZhou? or where? hmm.
Gary and i have been meeting up often to discuss bout our proposal, and brainstorming bout Hoovix's foundations. Gotta get the namecards ready. The backbone of the company has to be up. What do we believe in. What is our bottomline. What's the projected revenue.
Designed something fresh today. Finally have been productive for the past few days. Settled one project, going to pitch for two on Monday and Tuesday.
Gotta document the whole journey of Hoovix, so that when it fails, at least i can look back at the documentation and laugh at the blunders and errors. Haha.
Love is just like any other emotions. Just a chemical reaction in the body. Give it the right environment, the rights words to trigger the chemicals, the right moves they call it, and you get love. It's not really rocket science. Just a shame how some just don't get it. 爱很简单. Just don't complicate it. Dont.
Sometimes we argue till we forgot what we argue for. We forgot what's the root cause. haha. it's funny now that im not in one anymore, when i look at other ppl's relationship, the way the argue is amusing, childish and totally no meaning. haha. yup.
I felt very sad when my couple friends break up. More so when I know both of them. Cos i was there. My world stopped for 3 weeks. My projects got delayed. And I am bout to fail my fucking module. As far as I can see, only Alex has this kinda stupid reaction. I think my friends handle their breaks better. Ha. Alex is a loser in this. :D
Well, we all learn. The harder we fall, the higher we bounce.
You can lie to the world, but you can't lie to yourself. And the God above. And the Devil below.
Take care ppl in California. Ppl in Melbourne. Ppl in Perth ! And Miss Birmingham. haha and those gg US for work and study, pls pls go get your jabs. Hope to go back Ipoh soon. and go johor for a visit. Miss those chicken wings la !
Gotta go get the hair cut. Feel like paying Jantzen a visit. Nostalgia sake. One more for the memories.
Tc ppl.
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