The gayness of it all.

the big kuestion : How would you take it if you found out that your child is gay ?

Would you love him/her as much? Would you be open minded enough to understand him/her? To see things from him/her perspective?

ok from here on, i shall replace the him/her thingy with a name. Let's use Agatha. Unisex.

You've fed Agatha for 21 years now. You love Agatha since birth. You want to konform to society's norm. You pray for a 'normal' family. But who are we to judge what's normal and what's not ? You bring Agatha to church, hoping to influence Agatha with the power of God. The more you push, the more you kontrol, the more the child'd sway.

So what would you do ? Strange topik - given it's close to 3am. I've always thought that we're all more educated and more open minded than the previous generation ( aka our beloved parents ) and i really assume that most of us, given the level of education we've attained, that we will learn not to generalise things ( ie people of certain race like to relak one korner and fish), or we learn to not judge someone by his/her colour/ sexual preference..

And we learn to be better parents. You know that they will imitate you, yet you smoke. You know they'll kopy what you say, yet you skold with reference to a woman's anatomy..

Gays and lesbians are humans too. Why not give the space and rights which they deserve / need ? Why must they fight to love ? Isn't the game of love complicated enough ? They deserve to be treated with respek too.

Most of us are fighting the war of life. Fighting with the weight. Stopping ourselves from eating too much. Pushing ourselves to go run. Kick ourselves out of bed to get some things done, just to realise that at midnight, you can't sleep even though the headache had been killing you all day. Building a better relationship with the neighbour, the parents, the long lost buddy, the buddies, the chicken rice stall auntie, the paper boy.

We're all fighting. If we're all fighting this war together, then why give each other a hard time ?

Saw this video by 15Malaysia about Islam. Believers believe that when they die, they can't bring any kurrency or monies or gold bar with them. The only thing which they have, is the merit which they have akumulated when they were alive. The merit will determine how wealthy they are. I find it pretty inspiring.

Do a good deed today. Make the fucking world a better place.